RELATIONSHIP TIPS – STOP TRYING TO BE EACH OTHER’S “EVERYTHING”
“‘You are my everything’ is a lousy pop-song lyric and an even worse relationship plan. No one can be ‘everything’ to anyone. Create relationships outside The Relationship, or The Relationship isn’t going to work anymore.”
— Matt Lundquist, LCSW, MSEd, founder of Tribeca Therapy
It is a tall tale we tell our partners but the simply truth is that he/she should be able to live without you and for you.
Being too needy can be exhausting and ultimately affect your relationship.
Your partner should be an additional feature and not a necessary part.